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Showing posts with label hypnosis habits. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hypnosis habits. Show all posts

Wednesday, 4 December 2013

Forming Habits... And Sports Rituals

Legendary Dutch footballer Johan Cruyff used to slap his goalkeeper in the stomach before each match. Tennis ace Serena Williams always bounces her ball five times before her first serve. Jennifer Aniston, it is reported, touches the outside of any plane she flies in with her right foot before boarding.

From touching wood for good luck, to walking around ladders to avoid bad luck, we all have little routines or superstitions, which make little sense when you stop to think about them. And they are not always done to bring us luck. I wait until just after the kettle has boiled to pour the water for a cup of tea, rather than pouring just before it boils. I do not know why I feel the need to do this, I am sure it cannot make a difference to the drink.

So, why do I and others repeat these curious habits? Behind the seemingly irrational acts of kettle boiling, ball bouncing or stomach slapping lies something that tells us about what makes animals succeed in their continuing evolutionary struggles.

Repeat behaviour
We refer to something that we do without thinking as being a habit. This is precisely why habits are useful – they do not take up mental effort. Our brains have mechanisms for acquiring new routines, and part of what makes us, and other creatures successful is the ability to create these habits.

Even pigeons can develop superstitious habits, as psychologist B. F. Skinner famously showed in an experiment. Skinner would begin a lecture by placing a pigeon in a cage with an automatic feeder that delivered a food pellet every 15 seconds. At the start of the lecture Skinner would let the audience observe the ordinary, passive behaviour of the pigeon, before covering the box. After fifty minutes he would uncover the box and show that different pigeons developed different behaviours. One bird would be turning counter clockwise three times before looking in the food basket, another would be thrusting its head into the top left corner. In other words, all pigeons struck upon some particular ritual that they would do over and over again.

Skinner's explanation for this strange behaviour is as straightforward as it is ingenious. Although we know the food is delivered regardless of the pigeon's behaviour, the pigeon doesn't know this. So imagine yourself in the position of the pigeon; your brain knows very little about the world of men, or cages, or automatic food dispensers. You strut around your cage for a while, you decide to turn counter clockwise three times, and right at that moment some food appears. What should you do to make that happen again? The obvious answer is that you should repeat what you have just been doing. You repeat that action and – lo! – it works, food arrives.

From this seed, argued Skinner, superstition develops. Superstitions take over behaviour because our brains try and repeat whatever actions precede success, even if we cannot see how they have had their influence. Faced with the choice of figuring out how the world works and calculating the best outcome (which is the sensible rational thing to do), or repeating whatever you did last time before something good happened, we are far more likely to choose the latter. Or to put it another way: “if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it”, regardless of the cause.

Habit forming
University of Cambridge psychologist Tony Dickinson has taken the investigation of habits one step further. Dickinson trains rats to press a lever for food and perform another action (usually pulling a chain) for water. The animals can now decide which reward they would like most. If you give them water before the experiment they press the lever for food, if you give them food beforehand they pull the chain for water.

But something strange happens if the animals keep practising these actions beyond the point at which they have effectively learnt them - they seem to “forget” about the specific effects of each action. After this “overtraining”, you feed the animal food before the experiment and they keep on pressing the lever to produce food, regardless of the fact that they have just been fed. The rat has developed a habit, something it does just because it the opportunity is there, without thinking about the outcome.

Sound like anyone we know? To a psychologist, lots of human rituals look a lot like the automatic behaviours developed by Skinner's pigeons or Dickinson's rats. Chunks of behaviour that do not truly have an effect on the world, but which get stuck in our repertoire of actions.

And when the stakes are high – such as with sports – there is even more pressure on our brains to “capture” whatever behaviours might be important for success. Some rituals can help a sportsperson to relax and get “in the zone” as part of a well-established routine before and during a big game. But some of the habits you see put my kettle boiling routine to shame. Tiger Woods always wears red the last day of a golf tournament, because he says it is his “power colour”. In baseball, Wade Boggs claimed he hit better if he ate chicken the night before. Soccer’s Kolo Toure once missed the start of the second half because he refused to come out – superstition dictated he had to be the last player to re-emerge from the dressing room, but on that occasion he was stuck there waiting for a stricken teammate to finish treatment.

We cling to these habits because we – or ancient animal parts of our brains – do not want to risk finding out what happens if we change. The rituals survive despite seeming irrational because they are coded in parts of our brains, which are designed by evolution not to think about reasons. They just repeat what seemed to work last time. This explains why having personal rituals is a normal part of being human. It is part of our inheritance as intelligent animals, a strategy that works in the long-term, even though it clearly does not make sense for every individual act.


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Sunday, 9 October 2011

Lose Weight with Hypnosis

Is it possible to lose weight with hypnosis? How can hypnotherapy help me get slim?

Why do so many people struggle to maintain a healthy weight? Everyone knows what foods are unhealthy these days, and at the same time we all know that regular exercise is highly beneficial. So what’s the issue? Why is the western world developing an ever increasing weight problem when health science is better than ever?

Much of the answer is in how people decide to lose weight. We all want a quick fix to everything so a couple of weeks of near starvation is preferred to healthy life choices. Diet pills and crash diets are huge businesses for this very reason, and in the short term they can certainly work. However, people will lose the weight quickly only to gain it back again in a short few weeks or months. The reason for this is that their living habits simply haven’t altered. Often the habits are so strong that the bounce back from dieting leaves the individual even heavier than they were previously! The malnourished body craves the fatty foods and when it gets them, it stores the fat wherever it can in case the body is starved again. It’s a survival instinct as much as anything.

‘You are what you eat’ is an old expression that rings true, although I would say ‘You are how you live’ as diet is not everything. Some people can get away with eating far more, and far more unhealthily than others because their lifestyle allows for a rapid metabolism that can cope with high levels of carbohydrates, sugars and fats. So your lifestyle is what dictates the shape of your body in essence, and your lifestyle is based around your individual habits, all the things that you do naturally or without really thinking about them.

These habits are driven by the subconscious aspect of our minds, and if the subconscious is programmed into yearning for certain foods and activities that are unhealthy, no short term fix will change this. Many of us grew up drinking tea/coffee with plenty of sugar and biscuits/coffee on the side, we were programmed into this behaviour as being normal, all while sitting and watching hours of television every day. We were programmed into finishing our plate of food no matter if we really wanted it or not and were told to eat until we were full up, bloated even.

These things aren't going to do much for controlling our weight but when indoctrinated into doing these things ritually and automatically the behaviours won’t just stop on their own, or even after a short stint of wanting to change no matter how desperately you try. Sometimes people don’t even notice their habits, they will swear to you blind that they do not eat unhealthily ever, that is until you catch with a packets of crisps and they tell you it is a one off. They will swear to you that they do a lot of exercise and barely watch any TV, until you here them in conversation discussing all the different shows they are addicted to. If you seriously want to change you have to be honest with yourself, as well as educating yourself in what actually constitutes as being healthy.

I was once in a restaurant with a vastly overweight work colleague who ordered a triple decker hamburger with extra cheese, large fries with melted cheese, a side bbq ribs and chicken wings. Then they ordered a diet coke, claiming it was the healthy option! Education and self honesty.

A smoking addict will try to stop smoking and struggle against it day in day out, their subconscious mind will fire cravings and urging thoughts at them continually until a moment of weakness is found and they ultimately give in. The struggle can be very hard to take, especially when it is beating you time and time again, and often leaves people to just 'quit quitting’. In the same way unhealthy food will creep up on you, your subconscious mind bombarding you with thoughts and feelings, telling you that you need this fuel to be satisfied, until eventually you cave in. You try to exercise regularly but your subconscious mind will look for any excuse not to bother, eagerly trying to conserve the energy it has been storing for you, willing you to sit down and put your feet up. It is literally a continual battle of displeasure that the subconscious will win time and time again unless there is an immense force acting against it. Some people are told that they will die unless they change their habits; that is one wake up call. Others get divorced, get fired from their jobs or face humiliation from friends. Others opt to have their stomachs cut open and stapled to make them eat less. There is a far easier way of course.

Hypnosis has an extraordinary record with weight loss, and is probably the number one sought after treatment from Hypnotherapists. But how does it have such an amazing effect where other methods don’t? The answer is that hypnosis directly targets the subconscious mind like the other methods simple cannot. The subconscious mind can be altered into thinking the way you want it to think.

In hypnosis your subconscious mind can be reprogrammed into a healthy mind set, so it will not keep sending those urges or cravings for food and will not put up such resistance to any physical exercise. In fact after a treatment of hypnosis you will begin to enjoy regular exercise and you will enjoy eating healthy foods. Fatty fast foods will not even enter your head by themselves, and if they do they will be looked upon with distaste because your subconscious mind will know that they are directly linked with an unhealthy body, both from the inside and the outside.

Hypnosis puts you on the right track to leading a long term healthy lifestyle, where you do not need to diet or lose weight quickly ever again. You simply make the right healthy choices on a day to day basis and soon enough you will not even need to think about being healthy, it will be as automatic and natural as being unhealthy was to you before. You weight will fall off gradually but regularly until you reach your desired weight or body image, and there you will remain for as long as you want to. Hypnosis is a very simple method but one that is proven to work.

Can anyone lose weight with hypnosis? Yes absolutely. But for hypnosis to be effective you do need a true desire to lose weight and a willingness to change your lifestyle for the better. If you do not truly want to change then change simply won’t happen; there has to be that strong motivating factor behind it all driving things forward.

If you are really motivated the changes will be easy to make and can be accomplished quickly under the guidance of a good hypnotherapist.

healnowtherapy@hotmail.co.uk for questions.